MOM!!!!!!!

This past week has been a series of hours on end of calls about what services are available to navigate the road of aging parents!  It has been frustrating, confusing, time consuming...and not my normal..."here's my question, I want a direct answer." Plus, mom has been extremely uncooperative.    My sister and I have both been on the phone, I'm exhausted.  I've gone through the conversations about moving her out to live with us in CA but do not think it is a viable option.  I worry about hiring in home help in terms of not being able to supervise them from CA.  Mom, of course, is pissed about me trying to help...oh,except when she needs money transferred to her accounts...then...we're "best buds".   Where is God and nature when the jig is up?  If it were me....let me fall asleep on a bench in my backyard, with the sun shining....all things taken care of...no worries, just good memories!